Strained family dynamics are something a lot of us will experience at different periods in our life, to varying degrees or intensity. If you've been following me for a while, you know that I've had a difficult relationship with my mother and biological father. When Al and I sat down to hit record on episode 22: Rip It Life: Building Your Dream Career & Still Enjoy Life with Al Goldman a very different conversation unfolded naturally that I had to hit record on.
Al and I talk about our journey's with our own mothers, from our upbringings, to abuse, to finding a spiritual path.
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IN THIS CONVERSATION WE COVER:
- Our histories with strained family relationships and abuse
- Handling our mother's on our wedding day
- Understanding narcissistic and borderline personalities and their impact
- Finding our own paths to healing
- Our hopes for our kids: Offering the kind of love we missed when we were kids
- Redefining structures, families and friendships as millennials
- How to forgive yourself for judging yourself
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Quotes:
27:10 | I have come to a place where now I can accept that although this stuff is really traumatizing, this is all part of our spiritual path and we are all doing the best that we can do. -Al Goldman
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27:49 | Active listening is the best thing that you can have. People just want to be heard. -Al Goldman
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51:07 | If we redefine anything as millennials we can redefine structures and family and friends. -Al Goldman
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